“If you give me some new kitchen cabinets, I’ll redo your website and give you free hosting and SEO for a year.” Trading the products or services of a family business for something in return is more common than most people like to admit. Sure, we all enjoy getting something for “free,” but when it comes to trades, that freebie often has a steep cost.

In fact, even though you may think the trade is good for the family business because it builds friendships and can lead to referrals, often the trade is unequal, decreases employee morale and creates a “who is getting more” pile of resentments within the family. So while trading may be common, it’s a practice you need to avoid or curb immediately.

Consider these key points the next time you contemplate trading your family business’s products or services:

Swapping quickly escalates

A little trade with a neighbor usually starts out innocently enough. Perhaps you swap septic pumping for piano lessons for your child. Since that turned out well, you may branch out and do other trades with more businesses. Before you know it, you start to think it’s okay to use the business any way you want to, which could ultimately lead to issues of embezzlement. So even though trading is not seen as taking the company’s assets, it’s a slippery slope that is truly a misuse of the family business.

Trading decreases employee morale and productivity

Would you like to put in a full day’s work and not get paid for it? Often, that’s how employees feel (both family and nonfamily) when they have to do trade work. Think about it from their perspective. The person who normally would have sold the product or service no longer gets commission for the sale, yet he or she still has to process the paperwork and possibly even do the hands-on work. On top of that, the employees see the owner (or the person who did the trade) reap all the personal benefits of the trade, while the business as a whole gets nothing. And despite this extra work now on their plate, the employees still have to meet their usual goals and/or quotas. But what’s the motivation to do so when the owners or managers let product walk out the front door?

Employees often do what you do, not what you say

When employees see the owner or other family members doing trades, they may take up the practice themselves. After all, why should the owner be the only one with a club membership or new carpeting in his or her home? Once trading escalates, profits shrink. Ultimately, employees start to think of the business as their personal pocketbook instead of as a stand-alone entity that has a responsibility to all employees and shareholders.

You devalue your offerings

When you trade, the value of the item or service (for both parties) diminishes. Because no money is being exchanged, neither party truly understands the real value of the product or service received. Even worse, when word spreads that you’re willing to work for trades (and it will), the value of what you do shrinks even more. Before you know it, a good number of your sales leads are from people interested in trading. And no company can pay its bills when trades dominate the workload.

You can’t get equal service

More often than not, trades leave someone with the short end of the stick. Because you’re getting the product or service “free,” it’s difficult to complain when something isn’t quite right. Want the yard service to do a better job landscaping? Didn’t like the last batch of organic produce? If you had paid full price for the product or service, you’d have no problem complaining. Yet when it’s a trade deal, you often feel that you can’t make demands. When that occurs, feelings of resentment grow, making the trade an unpleasant situation for at least one of the participants.

End the trades for good

If someone really wants your product or service, and you really want theirs, then engage in each other’s offerings the right way – by going through the sales channels and paying for the deliverables. While trading is perceived as cheaper and easier, when you consider all the damage it does to your employees, your product or service’s value, and ultimately your business, you’ll see that trading is actually a very costly option. To keep your family business going strong, swap out the trading mentality before it’s too late.